There is really a problem with this community

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At first I tried to register on the site, I gave my official email and waited a day for reply... send a email to the devs, never got a reply and my activation mail never came
So i went on Irc where they told me that I should make a new email somewhere else so I tried with my hotmail account but that didn't worked cause they are not accepted
Finally someone told me to use an email from myownemail, that worked for him he told me
I did that and I finally got my account working on the forum!
being extremely happy I tried to connect after I followed all the steps in tutorials on how to use EQemu and there he tells me that I got a wrong pass or username for EQemu...
I went back on Irc, asked for help and there they told me to go look on the forum...
I looked over and over again and found all kind of stupid post where people send people to other post where they do exactly the same.
Finally I found one post were a dev told the guy that the server was acting funky with some login's and that he should wait or try a new one. But thats not a sollution....

I made 3 different log ins and none of them work
so I'm wondering if someone could pls pls help me
cause I'm really tiered of searching for nothing