A connection to the server could not be reached *I searched*

[Zinser]

everytime i try to open up the game it says everquest encountered an error sorry for the inconveniance...i thought i need fresh copy so i downloaded new copy of titanium my eq host says
[LoginServer]
Host=eqemulator.net:5998
and my launcher has the patchme after it
"C:\Program Files\Sony\EverQuest\eqgame.exe" patchme
i dont know what else it could be i also upgraded my ram to thinking maybe it was that and that didnt work either plz help me i used to play it on this computer so i know it should work but dont understand why...anyone have any ideas